Half-full or half-empty is yours to define, based whether you are an optimist or a pessimist. Feelings levels are then a mixture of positive and negative, somewhere between the extremes.
Buckets get empty for several reasons. Other people dip out of your bucket, with criticism, neediness, abuse, teasing and negativity. The spigot at the bottom is turned to "open," you are a poor self-nurturer. You have not refilled your bucket often enough by practicing "healthy selfishness."
Buckets get filled for other reasons. Rich experiences fill your bucket. For me, these include a "date" with my roommate of 50+ years, live music, a trip to an art exhibit or to a "dime-store," family get-togethers, lunch with a dear friend, etc. Compliments and accomplishments refill your bucket, along with positive self-talk. Rest and nutritious/comfort foods fill as well.
Fill up your bucket from these internet sites:
- Arcade Days - Bobby Farouk's terrific new/blue blog - "brief fictions"
- Qarrtsiluni - creative contributions of images, prose and poetry. Lovely!
- Simply Recipes - Good website graphics: Elise Baur posts easy recipes & great photos
- Daily Dose of Imagery - wonderful new photo every day
- About:Literature:Contemporary - Mark Flanagan's rich website about what's new in literature
- photographica - a community photojournal
- Hoarded Ordinaries - popular "place blog" by Lorianne DiSabato, a writer photographer living in New England
- East3rdBlog - "photography, music, life"
- Accidental Hedonist - Kate Hopkins & Kristen's unusual stuff
- NASA Images -Multimedia gallery, from earth to the ends of the universe
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My "creative post" today at Southwest Blogger is about oil.
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